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Why Self-Reliance Is Self-Evident

  • Writer: Leroy Hayes
    Leroy Hayes
  • Oct 10, 2025
  • 2 min read

Updated: 5 days ago

Society wants you docile. It wants you to follow the herd, to trust your institutions over your instincts, your government over your gut. But if you’ve been paying attention, you know better. You know the system isn’t built to protect you; it’s built to keep you dependent.


The question isn’t whether they care, we all know they don’t.

The real question is: what are you gonna do about it?


This isn’t a rant about the government, the banks, or the health organizations. This is about you, the only person truly responsible for your survival and success. Maybe you’re blessed with good family or friends, but even then, you still have to carry your own weight. Leadership starts with self-reliance. And the world we’re heading into (or for many of us already in) is going to demand more of it than ever before.


Start here:


1.Temporally: Command your time, money, and attention. Every resource has a purpose, waste none of them. Spend only on what strengthens you or those you lead. Track what you own, what you owe, and where your effort goes. Build through focus, fortify through diversification. The goal isn’t luxury; it’s sovereignty.


2. Physically: Forge a body that endures. Strength and stamina are your armor. Lift, run, fight, and sweat until your body obeys your will. Train a combat art. Test yourself. The more you sweat in training, the less you bleed when it matters. Discipline your flesh, and it will serve you faithfully when the world turns hostile.


3. Mentally: You are the gatekeeper of your mind. Guard it with vigilance. Refuse to feed it fear, distraction, or weakness. Read, think, rest, and learn deliberately. Cultivate focus. A strong mind turns chaos into opportunity; fortune favors the bold.


4. Spiritually: When fear rises, return to your center. Align your actions with your principles. Let your spirit lead your flesh, not the other way around. The man who commands his inner world cannot be conquered by the outer one.


From there, expand your skillset:

  • Grow your own food.

  • Learn first aid.

  • Buy ammo and learn how to handle a firearm.

  • Study herbs, sewing, repair, or animal husbandry.


You don’t have to do it all, but you should do something. The world won’t stop shifting, and no one’s coming to save you. The strong find a way or make one.



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Having served over a thousand students over the past 25 years,

my work has been shaped by one constant truth:

a man’s greatest opponent is the weaker version of himself.

 

This work unites  body, mind, spirit,

and the temporal into a single path

that demands discipline.

 

Through the Formidable Ideal, men learn to 

command their bodies, master their minds,

and lead their lives with strength and purpose.

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